What's In My Big Question for Me

Big Question: Why do we always have the feeling that we have to please others?

• Self-worth is such a sensitive topic for me, I feel like it's risky to talk about especially for those who struggle with trying to find it most, and my Big Question mainly revolves around that
• Learning why we do things and who we do them to is something I'v always wondered, like why do we do the things we do? Why do we do them to the people we do them to? What is it that we're trying to gain from them that we can't give to ourselves? (so many questions)
• I honestly feel like this Big Question is something that has been wandering in the back of my head for awhile, I just never really focused on it, until now. Looking for others' approval and satisfaction with us and the things we do is something that I will never fully understand, why is it that we depend so much on others and their opinions when they really won't matter in the end. It's self-love and self-validation that we should focus on instead, y'know?